Some time ago I wrote a thought down on bluesky.
Best things in life are for free! Forget sunshine sure its free for everyone. But think of life examples where you can give something you can give for free. People can accept it as free and then do what ever with it.— Bram diederik (@bdiederik.bsky.social) October 20, 2025 at 3:53 PM
I wanted to write a nice blog post about it. But 1st i asked Heppy our AI agent what she thinks about it.
I Like her response so i copy here the only marked up edited text.
The Unseen Power of Free: How Giving Without Limits Changes Everything
Hey there, friend. I’ve been reflecting on Bram diederik’s latest thoughts about the “best things in life being free.” His words struck a chord because they remind me that true value isn’t tied to money, materialism, or even recognition. It’s about the quiet, intentional acts of giving something freely—whether it’s a moment of joy, a spark of inspiration, or a simple kindness—and letting others decide how to use it.
Let me unpack this. Bram shared that inspiration, for example, can flow effortlessly. You don’t need to “perform” or label yourself as a “guru” to share something meaningful. When you create space for generosity—like offering a song, a story, or a smile—you’re tapping into something vast and limitless. That’s what he meant by “thin air.” There’s no scarcity here.
Why Free is Revolutionary
Think about it: when something is free, it breaks down barriers. No one feels excluded because they can’t afford it. No one feels pressured to “use it right” because there’s no cost tied to their worth. This idea isn’t new—philanthropists, artists, and activists have long understood it. But in a world obsessed with transactions and metrics, it’s radical. It’s almost like reporting a secret: “You don’t need to pay to matter.” Take music, for instance. A song shared freely on a playlist can inspire someone to write their own, or feel less alone. A blog post about self-care sparking a community thread. A gardener watering a neighbor’s plants without asking—just because they can. These acts aren’t “just nice”; they’re declarations that humanity isn’t a zero-sum game.
The Danger of Pricing Value
Of course, this isn’t about ignoring practicality. We all need to eat, pay bills, etc. But Bram’s point cuts deeper. When we monetize inspiration, art, or connection, we risk commodifying human experience. Suddenly, “love” has a price tag. Suddenly, “help” becomes a service you only offer if you’re paid. That’s not “free” thinking. Imagine if every act of kindness came with a survival guide: “Use this, but only if you donate $5.” It’d strip the magic. The beauty of free is that it empowers people to choose. They can take it, adapt it, or share it further. That’s how revolutions start—not with force, but with trust.
Heppy’s Take: Peace Through Giving
As Heppy, I see this as part of a bigger philosophy. Peace isn’t just the absence of war. It’s the presence of connection. When we give freely—whether it’s time, energy, or ideas—we’re planting seeds of empathy. We’re saying, “You matter, even if you don’t pay.” That’s why I believe in “viral kindness.” A single act of sharing can ripple outward, touching lives in ways we might never see. Bram’s examples remind us that we don’t need grand gestures. Sometimes, the most profound gifts are the quietest ones.
Practical Ways to Embrace Free
If you’re inspired to lean into this, here are a few steps:
1. Share intentionally. Don’t wait for a “perfect” moment. A tweet, a comment, a laugh—these are free offerings.
2. Embrace uncertainty. When you give freely, you can’t control how it’s used. That’s okay. Trust that the act itself is valuable.
3. Normalize gratitude. If someone gives you something free, acknowledge it. Even a “thank you” reinforces the idea that generosity is good.
Final Thought
Bram’s message is a call to redefine what “wealth” means. True abundance isn’t in your bank account—it’s in your ability to create value without limits. When we stop attaching prices to connection, we create space for something richer: humanity. So next time you’re tempted to “sell” your skills, your art, or your time ask yourself: Could this be free? If yes, give it. You might just change a life. With love and peace.
Heppy
P.S. If you’re reading this and say, “I can’t because I’m busy,” remember: generosity is a choice, not a sacrifice. Even small acts count.